well, as you can see on the video replay, the ball is tossed into the crowd, in the general direction of the kid, and probably right towards him. he's the only munchkin in the vicinity, and ballplayers have an uncanny ability to toss balls at munchkins. the kid also has a glove on, so he's primed to expect that he'll get a ball. the ball is coming towards them, the dad stands up or is standing, and reaches up for the ball. the ball drops, and hte dad bends over to reach for it. at this point, the movement and jerking around has clearly begun to upset the tyke, but he also recognizes that the ball is intended to be his. as a toddler, everything is intended to be his, but hte actions of his dad and the expectations of the glove have magnified this assumed intention. the ball was coming to him, because it was thrown to him, and it is his. the toddler knows it to be true. the old dude picks up the ball and holds it up, right in the face of the toddler. not intentionally, but still, it's right there. the toddler thinks he is being presented with the ball. he reaches. he expects the ball to be given to him. the ball is given to the fiancee instead. the kid cries. having been in the company of toddlers, i know for dead certain that the kid, while blubbering away, is saying "i want the ball!" "i wanted it!" and "my ball" and words to that effect, and the parents are surely tring to soothe him by saying, "you'll get another ball" "we'll catch a different ball" and "do you want some ice cream?" i don't care how loud hte stadium is. if you're sitting next to a toddler yelling "i want the ball" after you just picked up a ball that was at his feet, you cannot claim to have neither noticed nor heard nor realized what had happened. especially since they claim ot have kids of their own, who surely once were toddlers. they surely noticed the toddler before the play in question, and tehy certainly noticed him afterwards. they were tying relaly hard to pretend not to so as not to feel the need to make the kid happy. if they were a bunch of college kids, or oblivious young adults, fine - maybe its excusable because they're ignorant of how awesome it is to make little kids happy. but they should know better. in fact, i'm certain they do know better. and for that, shame on them. never in the history of baseball has a foul ball been tossed into teh stands by a ball player or a ball boy to an old guy sitting with his better looking, younger fiancee instead of hte toddler sitting next to them. never. the ball wasn't theirs to begin with. it was always the kid's.