I understand the Mets cannot tell jason Bay he can't go on paternity leave, which is his right. But I would like to think that Jason Bay, after sucking for a half-year, missing a half-year, then missing the first three weeks of this season, might want to just say, OK, I'll be there for the birth, maybe miss one game, then come right back. [At the very least we know Bay would not have been pinch-hit for in the 5th inning last night]