="Elster88"]But my argument is that nobody forced you to make that emotional investment in him. The only reason you did, I'm guessing, is because he was so darn good. I can see being disappointed that he didn't live up to the promise he showed. In fact, I felt the same way. But it's not his fault that you put so much of your hopes and dreams into his life. Nope, nobody forced me to be a fan and nobody forced him to make big money to play a game. Because there are a lot of baseball fans willing to pay money to see games, players are well-compensated. If they are going to take that kind of money (ie: the fans investment in them) they will be expected to do more than just play well. ="Elster88"]To say you felt betrayed is implying that he had some sort of committment to you as a fan. I'd argue that he never had any such committment. I'd argue that by my being a fan I had a committment to support and cheer for him and his team. The deal is - I'll come watch, cheer, root and spend my money - you, playah, willl put your best effort forward and win as many games as you possibly can. I did my part, he didn't do his. ="Elster88"]My feeling is that it's ridiculous to still feel betrayed 15+ years later. The guy is in jail for crying out loud (and bankrupt?). He wishes it didn't happen as much as you do. Do we as Met fans really need to pile on the guy? It was a very big deal to me at the time. I felt like I had something very special and he took it away from me. Sure 15 years later it doesn't hurt as much but it still hurts. ="Elster88"]I'd advise, to anyone who feels hatred, to appreciate what he did instead of hating him for what he didn't do. That's hard to do when you think about what he could have done.