Tracksuit weighs in and says the outrage is "outsized" , the issue is silly but lays blame all over the place Outrage over Mets not wearing caps of NYPD, FDNY, PAPD on 9/11 shows how pain of day still lingers The National Football League spray-painted ribbons onto its fields. Baseball sewed flag patches onto its teams' hats. Video tributes were everywhere. Sports did its best on Sunday to wrap its 9/11 remembrances in glossy, sentimental and simplified packages. Honor the 10th anniversary, but make sure it goes down easily, so we can shake it off, enjoy the games and buy the licensed memorabilia. But Cap Flap at Citi Field, a story that grew legs and walked all the way to midweek, came roaring out of the darkness to provide the most fitting remembrance of all: It was disheartening, complex and irrational, just like the legacy of 9/11 itself. For all of its silliness, this hat issue cut deeply, and taught us about ourselves. Mistakes and overreactions by every party - Major League Baseball, Mets management, Mets players - showed how raw 9/11 remains in New York, and how we are still unable to deal with it cleanly. No one behaved well, but the outrage inspired by each piece of this story was outsized. To catalog the missteps: * Despite a desire to 1) create uniformity in its policies and 2) profit from the sale of game-worn 9/11 caps, MLB should have just let the Mets wear first responder hats during Sunday's game. For what it's worth, New Era, which manufactured the American flag hats used in all MLB games Sunday, said it would not have objected to the Mets wearing first responder hats, as the team so memorably did in 2001. "Whatever Major League Baseball decided, we would have supported that decision," New Era spokeswoman Dana Marciniak told the Daily News' Michael O'Keeffe Tuesday. It is difficult not to conclude that MLB, tempted by memorabilia money, made an odious calculation. MLB reps did not return calls for official comment Tuesday. * Mets management should have told its players to ignore the edict and do what they felt was right. There have been conflicting claims about potential fines that would have been levied on players and/or the team, but one suspects the amount would have been affordable for anyone wishing to stand on principle. * Some Mets veteran should have spared 24-year-old Josh Thole from acting as the face of the team on this issue just because he is the union representative. Thole conducted himself with with grace, but was in an unfair position. None of those offenses was surprising, or worthy of the attention and outrage they received. But that is where Cap Flap was instructive: It swallowed efforts to keep 9/11 tributes simple. It pounded us with an inconvenient truth - most of us are not ready to look back on an event that has not yet left us. The decade since those towers fell has brought economic and political gloom. It brought two wars. It brought a presidency that first represented racial breakthrough, and descended for many into disappointment. It brought unrelated, but still momentous, calamities such as the D.C. sniper, Katrina and 10% unemployment. The cloud of that day has not lifted, and we are not ready for simple retrospectives. We can try, but reality comes raging in. That is why this latest Mets controversy, though even weirder than K-RodGate or Walter ReedGate or New YorkerGate, is so telling - and so appropriate. At a time when many of us still change the channel rather than watch footage of those buildings falling, when we are tired from 10 years of worry about our country and nervous about 10 more - when all that is still happening, it makes sense that we would go crazy for a few days about a 9/11-related issue, because nothing related to those memories is trivial. Buy Mets Tickets Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/sports/baseball/mets/2011/09/14/2011-09-14_cant_keep_911_under_hat.html#ixzz1Xw8ZlXfI