="Centerfield"]This may cause me to get struck by lightning here, but I think Alex Rodriguez actually is a stand up guy. I think he's a bit of a wuss...and sure that slap play on Arroyo was bush-league. But he has had to apologize for his contract ever since 2001. And that is not fair. At any point, he could have lashed out and said, "Hey, that wasn't my decision to offer me that much money." But he hasn't. He's accepted that such criticism will follow the money. He could also really get upset about the booing on the heals of an American League MVP. Or the way the press features a photo of A-Rod every time the Yanks are struggling. Or get upset about the bullshit "clutch" argument used to canonize Jeter and demonize A-Rod. I agree with all of that. I've read in a few places that, besides the money/jealousy issue, the reason a lot of other ballplayers hate him is because he has a lot of Gary Carter in him. Not the "I'm going to pose in front of as many cameras as I can" part of The Kid. But the "I'm going to give you advice all the time and talk like I know everything about the game and like I'm a coach" part. One thing in particular that sticks in my mind is some player saying that he was on second and ARod was shouting from the dugout "Get a secondary lead, get a secondary lead." I really think ARod thinks that kind of talk is helpful and appreciated, and doesn't realize that it can be annoying and make you seem like a know-it-all weenie. (We had a guy like that on my high school team.) ----------------- At the end of the day, the guy hasn't been caught with steroids, doesn't throw firecrackers, doesn't treat reporters and/or fans like shit, and busts his ass on every play. The quote above is really telling too: "I'm not gonna sit here and whine and complain about any situation that I'm in.". He recognizes that being booed sucks but also realizes that 99.99999999% of the population would trade jobs with him in a split-second. (In that respect, he's a lot like Natalie Portman, who says it was difficult growing up as an actress, but was quick to say she feels really blessed and lucky and didn't mean to knock it.) All threads lead to Natalie Portman.