Johnny Lunchbucket wrote: Hostility and saying the reporter is stupid is what Nick Castellano did this weekend. I know that because he said "that's a stupid question" then proceeded to denigrate both the reporter and the question once there was pushback. nah asking a player "did you hear the boos?" is essentially saying "hey man, they think you sucked tonight, did you know that?" and then, after he responds sarcastically, which is still a valid response, you PRESS HIM FURTHER. like "no, fuck you, really tell me about how you sucked tonight" and then, after that, one of the other media members in the clubhouse insults and denigrates one of the female reporters there. and people wonder why players are hostile to the media. But Jim Salisbury got his sound byte and gets to be part of the story I guess, so good for him. I feel this is definitely the wrong take, but The Marshmallows Man says this better than would anyway. Though it's almost a completely separate point, i feel like it's not made enough and its this: that even if i agreed with what you said and you changed my mind, its still problematic. So as you may recall, is that this thing began, when Roger said Buck was hostile., and I disagreed, wth the notion that Buck was hostile. And I also said why it was not hostile, but something else instead. Then I said, so we were all sure-- me, Roger, anyone, right? -- that one way i also know whether Buck was hostile was that a similar situation came up, and that was what hostile at least to me. Hostile or not hostile. So that, if someone happens to disagree with me, it at some level, they should also honor, and address their disagreement, on the notion of hostility, maybe Castellano's hostility, or maybe its Bucks hostility. Maybe they are both hostile! Maybe neither demonstrate what you think is hostile, but that you have a different definition of hostile, as i did with Roger. But it's that-- hostility. What is hostile? What is not hostile? So sure enough it happens, and even the part quoted, begins "hostility is ...." And that argument essentially begins with and then proceeds to argue, for "So what's wrong with being sarcastic?"