I don't have a problem with 81 games, if that's what it ends up being. I think each incident has to be evaluated on its own. All domestic abuse is bad, of course, but there should be stronger penalties, I think, for a savage beating than for a single open-handed slap. We don't, of course, know all the details, but if Jose grabbed his wife by the throat, slammed her against a wall, and caused injuries that required her to go to a hospital, I'd say that's fairly severe. Certainly not MOST severe, but I think it's severe enough to warrant 81 games.