RealityChuck wrote: I think the statement is better understood if you consider that Murphy probably intended "gay lifestyle" to mean "gay sex." It's not controversial that straight men don't like the idea of gay sex (otherwise they'd be gay or bi). Murphy is saying that, he doesn't like what gays do in bed, but that doesn't mean he can't be civil and friendly to a gay man. If what you are stating were the case, then why does Murphy bring religion into the conversation? I'm not gay but I don't give any thought to what Billy Bean does in bed...much less approve or disapprove. Also, the use of the word "lifestyle" to me implies choice. I used to smoke and eat like shit and drink a bit too much. Then I had health issues and decided to change my lifestyle to a healthier one where I don't smoke, eat better and drink less often.