There is a history with the Mets and the caps and the meaning therein that transcends Torre's suggestion that a patch would cover the same ground. Nobody got hurt from the annual commemoration the Mets continued between 2002 and 2007, wearing the first responder caps in game once a year, keeping going the spontaneous tribute they paid between September 17, 2001, and October 7, 2001. MLB loses nothing if the commemoration resumes. It's gaining everything from the understanding that one of its teams (and by implication every one of its teams) considers itself enough a part of the community where it plays to say, in essence, "this is us, too." When a whole new generation of players is anxious to pay tribute in some way, as Pete Alonso and the shoes illustrated, MLB needs to understand this is bigger than a crimp in their uniform regulations. This is potentially fading living memory being kept alive by younger people who recognize the importance of remembering and keeping the flame lit. If MLB is smart, they'll get out in front and act like they're leading this. And if MLB is human, they'll step out of the way and let this play out with minimal regulatory interference. This is the real Players Weekend ethos at work, not a distasteful merchandising contrivance. This is the players, like Alonso, but also his teammates who welcomed and participated in the gesture, understanding the relationship between a baseball team and its city at its heart. The Mets have done wonderful things for those who were directly affected and still do. They have remained in touch with and supportive of families who lost somebody. They support organizations that support them. We know they visit firehouses and invite first responders to take part in pregame ceremonies. They do a lot. Yet the in-game wearing of the caps is a symbolic act with real resonance. It's not a burden on anybody. It's a moment that strives to connect the empathy and unity we felt after a tragedy with the sense that the people who gave their all are not forgotten -- and the people who continue to give their all are truly appreciated. And the fact that the fans bring it up every September, even if it is as a bit of a cudgel to complain, shows that the baseball audience -- comprised of MLB's customers -- cares about it, and that's not a small thing. I listened to Joe Torre explain MLB's position and I still don't understand it. Heaven forbid another city suffers anything like a 9/11. Heaven forbid another person suffers anything like a 9/11. Heaven forbid there be anything like it. If there is, heaven help anybody if their first thought is, "oh great, somebody's gonna wanna wear a special cap in a game now."