We do seem to have become a more maudlin society. A lot of people have pointed out that they think we've been too weepy over September 11, and point to December 7, 1942 (and December 7, 1943...) in comparison to the annual 9/11 memorial events. I just looked it up on Retrosheet. The Yankees played baseball the day Lou Gehrig died. They also played the following day. (They were in Detroit.) According to Wikipedia, they were going to play on the day of the funeral, June 4, but the game got rained out. If the Yankees played a regular season game when Lou Gehrig died, I don't see the argument for the Mets canceling a playoff game when Cory Lidle died. And if we weren't such a maudlin society, the question never would have even been raised.