R.A. Dickey, human being, via Andy McCullogh in the Star-Ledger. Sometimes, Anne admits in jest, she gets a little jealous. The secret about her husband is out. She met R.A. when she was 12. They were friends in high school. She transferred to the University of Tennessee to be with him. They�ve been married for 14 years, sharing joy, soothing pain, building a family. In April, Dickey allowed a leadoff single in a Triple-A game. He retired the next 27 batters � the almost perfect game. Anne listened on an internet broadcast in Nashville. As the innings passed, the kids went outside to ride their bicycles. R.A.�s mother went with them. Anne stayed by the computer. When the game was over, she dashed into the street and hugged her mother-in-law. �He did it,� she shouted. �He did it.� Her husband created that sort of joy here in New York this summer, during the early months of summer when these games still mattered. His teammates saw a combination of off-field serenity and on-field ferocity, his mouth roaring with each pitch. �He looks like a lion,� first baseman Ike Davis said. Earlier this month, Dickey logged a complete-game victory over Pittsburgh. Jonathon Niese approached him after the game. He was in elementary school when the Rangers drafted Dickey. Now he lockers next to him. He leaned in, his voice lowered. �I just love watching you pitch,� Niese said. �I really do.� After tonight, the pitching stops and the uncertainty returns. Dickey will turn 36 next month. He plans to train for a triathlon, travel with his family. They know this much: Their fourth child is due on Opening Day 2011. They will take everything else moment by moment. �It�s become much more about the journey than the destination,� Anne said. She paused for a moment. Laughter tinged her voice. �But I do the hope the destination ends up with one team for a very long time,� she said. �That would be a beautiful thing.� Meanwhile, from a bloodless statistical perspective, a big night ahead where the Swannie concerned. Current standings: 7. Myers, HOU 2.89 8. Kershaw, LAD 2.91 9. Latos, SDP 2.92 10. Dickey, NYM 2.92 11. Cain, SFG 2.95 12. Santana, NYM 2.98 13. Jimenez, COL 2.99